
Hill found that different parenting styles produced different responses among children.1ġ. The horizontal axis measured how much discipline or control parents exercised in their relationship with their child. Hill put all of his research on a grid with an x-axis, a y-axis, and four quadrants. Sociologist Reuben Hill conducted a study of thousands of teens and parents in Minnesota.

Two case studies - one sociological and the other biblical - show us what appropriate, godly discipline is all about.

To speak of a parent disciplining a child today evokes images of unreasonable anger and brutal beatings. If the most important thing for our children to learn is to obey, what do we do when they won’t?įirst, it’s important to understand how your parenting approach may be contributing to the problem, especially in a culture that has made discipline a dirty word. It shows us how to provide the kind of discipline that helps our children fulfill their responsibility. That’s a challenge, and God’s Word has much to say about how we as parents can meet that challenge.

How do you get your children to mind without losing yours? There’s not a responsible parent on the planet who hasn’t struggled with getting a child to obey, and it can be an excruciating experience.
